Thursday, 23 July 2020

Liberty and Responsibility

This is the sixteenth piece of devotional worship (18th in total) that I have put together for sharing, during the shutting down of worship due to the Corona virus outbreak. I am posting it before Sunday. If you would like to share it with myself and the two congregations I serve, please feel free to do so. We will worship together but physically apart, either at 10am or 11.30am on Sunday 26h July. All you need is an open heart, mind, spirit and soul. A small candle will be helpful. All are most welcome. come as you are, exactly as you are, but do not expect to leave in exactly the same condition.

You can also enjoy a Zoom version of this service at 11am on Sunday 26th July. If you wish to access the service the code is as follows: Meeting ID: 841 9082 8195

This is a recurring meeting so it will be the same code each week and for all future events.


“Liberty and Responsibility”


Invocation
I invite you to still yourself, to prepare yourselves for worship in this sacred time and space…Let us be still and invite a loving presence to be amongst us and to awaken within us…
Light Chalice
Welcome to this community of love.
May we be reminded here of our highest aspirations, and be inspired to bring our gifts of love and service to the altar of humanity.
May we know once again that we are not isolated beings but connected, in mystery and miracle, to God, to the universe, to this community and to each other.
Let us begin our worship in the spirit of Love.
Hymn
Hymn 174 Green Hymn Book “A Church is a Living Fellowship” Words Frank Clabburn Tune Lancaster 96. 96. By David Dawson

A church is a living fellowship
More than a holy shrine,
Where people can share their hopes and fears
Less of the yours and mine;

Where bonded by trust we search for Truth
Beyond the chains of creeds,
Anthought can aspire to shine with fire
From all our deepest needs.

Let’s stretch out the open hand of Love,
Conquer the fists of hate,
Divided no more by voices of war,
Greeds of our mindless state;
We’ll take all our building bricks of Truth,
Make of them homes of Life,
A future to face the shame and disgrace
In all our pasts of strife.

A church is a place of human trust
More than of brick and stone;
Of love we will sing to make it ring
In every joyous tone.

Prayer
I invite you now to join together in a time of prayer...these word’s of prayer will be followed by the prayer that Jesus taught, the Lord’s prayer which I invite us to say together.

Let us pray
God of love, Divine Spirit of compassion be present here with us this day.
Help us to attune ourselves to the great mysteries of creation, to the wonder of the moment.
Awaken our senses to life itself, to what is both beautiful and holy...PAUSE...
Help us to experience your spirit as it flows through all of life
That is present in our hearts and souls and those of our brothers and sisters.
Help us to let down those barriers that separate us from one another and from our true being. Help us not to deny our weaknesses or to become enslaved by the fear of imperfection.
Bring us into harmony oh God show us how to be all that were born to be...PAUSE...
Deliver us from impatience, intolerance and most of all hate
Bring us to that place of compassionate self giving and self liberating love.
Show us the way oh God...show us the way
Amen

Lords’s Prayer

Story

The Selfish Crows. 

Once upon a time, there was a very big forest. There on a huge banyan tree lived many crows. They were selfish and arrogant. They always quarrelled with other birds. This behaviour irritated other birds. They had no friends, as no one liked them. 

When the rainy season came, dark clouds gathered 
in the sky. A small mynah was returning to her nest. When she was passing by the banyan tree, it started raining. “I will stay here for a while until it stops raining,” thought the little mynah. And I took rest on the banyan tree for a while. 

The selfish crows saw her perching on the tree. One of them shouted, “Get off the tree. This tree belongs to us.” The mynah humbly pleaded, “The weather is bad and my nest is far off from this forest. Please let me take a rest for a while on this tree, brother. As soon as it stops raining, I will return to my nest.” 

“Leave this banyan tree at once. Or we will peck you,” said the other crows. The merciless tendency of the selfish crows scared the mynah. The mynah found no other way except to fly off. Then immediately the mynah flew off to a nearby tree, where luckily she found a hollow in a broken branch. She took her shelter there. 

Shortly after, the rain became heavy followed by thunderstorm. The wind was in
high speed. Even the leaves and branches were not enough to give shelter to the crows. Many of the branches of many tree in which the crows had taken shelter were damaged and hurt by the hailstones. But the mynah was safe inside the hollow place in the tree. 

One of the crows said, “Look at the mynah! How comfortable she is. Let us go there.” Another crow said, “I do not think she will let us share the hollow. We did not have sympathy for her when she was in need of this tree.” Then another crow said, “We should not have been so rude. We forgot that we may need help someday.” 

Suddenly the mynah called out, “Come! My friends! Come to this hollow. Or you will get hurt. The rain is not going to stop soon. It seems that it may rain for a long time” 

The crows flew down to the hollow. They thanked the mynah. “We are sorry for being unkind, dear friend! Now we will never be so selfish.” 

Then the crows took shelter in the hollow place of the tree in which the mynah had taken her shelter. After some time, it stopped raining. All the birds flew to their respective nests happily as new friends. 
Reading

“Selfishness and Self-love” by Erich Fromm


Selfishness is not identical with self-love but with its very opposite. Selfishness is one kind of greediness. Like all greediness, it contains an insatiability, as a consequence of which there is never any real satisfaction. Greed is a bottomless pit which exhausts the person in an endless effort to satisfy the need without ever reaching satisfaction.

Close observation shows that while the selfish person is always anxiously concerned with himself, he is never satisfied, is always restless, always driven by the fear of not getting enough, of missing something, of being deprived of something. He is filled with burning envy of anyone who might have more.

If we observe closer still, especially the unconscious dynamics, we find that this type of person is basically not fond of himself, but deeply dislikes himself.

Selfishness is rooted in this very lack of fondness for oneself. The person who is not fond of himself, who does not approve of himself, is in constant anxiety concerning his own self. He has not the inner security which can exist only on the basis of genuine fondness and affirmation. He must be concerned about himself, greedy to get everything for himself, since basically he lacks security and satisfaction.

The same holds true with the so-called narcissistic person, who is not so much concerned with getting things for himself as with admiring himself. While on the surface it seems that these persons are very much in love with themselves, they are actually not fond of themselves, and their narcissism - like selfishness - is an overcompensation for the basic lack of self-love.

[
Erich Fromm]
The Fear of Freedom, p.98-100

Hymn 99 (Green) “When Jesus Walked” words Martin Brown Shelton music Kingsfold C.M.D. Ralph Vaughan Williams
When Jesus walked upon the earth
He never talked with kings;
He talked with simple people
Of doing friendly things.
He never praised the conquerors
And all their hero host;
He said the very greatest were
The ones who loved the most.

His words were not of mighty deeds;
But many times he spoke
Of feeding hungry people
And cheering lonely folk.
I’m glad his words were simple words
Just meant for me and you;
The things he asked were simple things
That you and I can do.

Readings

From “Good Citizens: Creating Enlightened Society”
Manifesto for a Culture of Peace and Nonviolence drafted by Thich Nhat Hanh and Nobel Peace Prize winners.
Manifesto 2000 for a Culture of
Peace and Nonviolence
"Because the year 2000 must be a new beginning, an opportunity to transform — all together — the culture of war and violence into a culture of peace and nonviolence;
"Because this transformation demands the participation of each and every one of us, and must offer young people and future generations the values that can inspire them to shape a world based on justice, solidarity, liberty, dignity, harmony, and prosperity for all;
"Because the culture of peace can underpin sustainable development, environmental protection, and the well-being of each person;
"Because I am aware of my share of responsibility for the future of humanity, in particular to the children of today and tomorrow;
"I pledge in my daily life, in my family, my work, my community, my country, and my region, to:
"1) Respect the life and dignity of each human being without discrimination or prejudice.
"2) Practice active nonviolence, rejecting violence in all its forms: physical, sexual, psychological, economic, and social, in particular towards the most deprived and vulnerable such as children and adolescents.
"3) Share my time and material resources in a spirit of generosity to put an end to exclusion, injustice, and political and economic oppression.
"4) Defend freedom of expression and cultural diversity, giving preference always to dialogue and listening without engaging in fanaticism, defamation, and the rejection of others.
"5) Promote consumer behavior that is responsible and development practices that respect all forms of life and preserve the balance of nature on the planet.
"6) Contribute to the development of my community, with the full participation of women and respect for democratic principles, in order to create together new forms of solidarity."

James 2 vv 14-17
Faith without Works Is Dead
14 What good is it, my brothers and sisters,[e] if you say you have faith but do not have works? Can faith save you? 15 If a brother or sister is naked and lacks daily food, 16 and one of you says to them, ‘Go in peace; keep warm and eat your fill’, and yet you do not supply their bodily needs, what is the good of that? 17 So faith by itself, if it has no works, is dead.
Meditation

SILENCE
 Amen.
MUSIC FOR MEDITATION

Hymn  140 (Green) The Love of God is Broader” words Frederick William Faber Music St Oswald 87.87, John Bacchus Dykes

There’s a wideness in God’s mercy
Like the wideness of the sea;
There’s a kindness in God’s justice
Which is more than liberty.

If we render love too narrow
With false limits of our own,
Then we magnify the strictness
With a zeal God will not own.

For the love of god is broader
Than the measures of our mind,
And the heart of the Eternal
Is most wonderfully kind.

Reading

Blackbirds by Julie Cadwallader-Staub

I am 52 years old, and have spent
truly the better part
of my life out-of-doors
but yesterday I heard a new sound above my head
a rustling, ruffling quietness in the spring air
and when I turned my face upward
I saw a flock of blackbirds
rounding a curve I didn’t know was there
and the sound was simply all those wings
just feathers against air, against gravity
and such a beautiful winning
the whole flock taking a long, wide turn
as if of one body and one mind.
How do they do that?
Oh if we lived only in human society
with its cruelty and fear
its apathy and exhaustion
what a puny existence that would be
but instead we live and move and have our being
here, in this curving and soaring world
so that when, every now and then, mercy and tenderness triumph in our lives
and when, even more rarely, we manage to unite and move together
toward a common good,
we can think to ourselves:
ah yes, this is how it’s meant to be.
Address

Nasruddin was once engaged in a spiritual conversation with a Buddhist monk. The monk told Nasrduddin:

“I have achieved an incredible level of disattachment from myself—so much so that I only think of others, and never of myself.”

Now Nasrudin paused for a while and then he replied:

“Well, I have reached a more advanced state than that.”

The Monk a little surprised by the Holy Fools response asked:

“How so?”

To which Nasrudin answered:

“I am so objective that I can actually look at another person as if he were me, and by doing so, I can think of myself!“

An interesting take on the “Golden Rule”, maybe? Maybe not?

Now is Nasruddin engaging in Narcissism, in self-absorption, self-obsession here? Is it all about him? Is he displaying selfishness? Or is he unearthing an interesting truth, something that we can often miss?

As most folk know I have been inspired for many years by the teachings of Viktor Frankl. I keep on returning to “Man’s Search for Meaning”. I recently read a series of his lectures delivered before he wrote his seminal work and after his liberation from Auschwitz. These have only recently been published in book form under the title “Yes To Life: In Spite of Everything”. Frankl’s approach to life has helped me once more in recent weeks as meaning has emerged in our collective suffering and thus helped me transcend feelings of despair. It is so easy to be tempted by despair when surround by such suffering. So thank you Dr Frankl for continuing to speak to me, many years after you have gone. You have kept me keeping on that search for meaning, despite the suffering, you have kept me living meaningfully while being a part of our shared suffering.
Frankl was a great believer in the individual finding their own meaning in life, that this was in many ways the ultimate freedom and that it could not be prescribed for us. He was of the existential school, although not within the mainstream of such thought. Yes, he did not believe that there was one metta narrative, but that did not mean that there was not meaning, or that we could not unearth the ultimate meaning, so in this sense he was different from classic existentialism.
Now while he believed it was our ultimate freedom to find this meaning, he did see dangers in our lives being dominated by this search. Frankl warned that freedom threatens to degenerate into mere license and arbitrariness unless it is lived responsibly. He admired much about the USA but was never shy about criticizing the popular understanding of some cherished American values, such as the notion of freedom being humanity’s ultimate search. He took exception, for instance, to what appeared to be a commonly accepted view of equating freedom with a license to do virtually anything one wants. To Frankl, freedom without responsibility was an oxymoron. That is why he suggested that the Statue of Liberty on the East Coast of America in New York Harbour ought to be supplemented by a “Statue of Responsibility” somewhere along the West Coast.
As he said:
“Freedom, however, is not the last word. Freedom is only part of the story and half of the truth. Freedom is but the negative aspect of the whole phenomenon whose positive aspect is responsibleness. In fact, freedom is in danger of degenerating into mere arbitrariness unless it is lived in terms of responsibleness. That is why I recommend that the Statue of Liberty on the East Coast be supplemented by a Statue of Responsibility on the West Coast.”1
I recall discussing this idea of building a Statue of Responsibility to compliment the “Statue of Liberty” with a friend a couple of years and it has come back into my thinking recently, especially as talk of statues and the removal of controversial ones and replacing them with other figures has been suggested. Figures who it is suggested better reflect our current values. Then again this week I was discussing Frankl with another friend. I suggested that if he was ever to read one book in his life that it ought to be “Man’s Search for Meaning”. He told me that he wasn’t sure that could. I suspect that he felt that it might be too upsetting due to its subject matter. He then said “didn’t Frankl want to replace the “Statue of Liberty” with the “Statue of Responsibility”, I explained that this was a common misconception, that in fact what he actually suggested was that liberty needed to complimented with responsibility. That freedom requires responsibility. I then rather naughtily bought my friend a copy of Man’s Search for Meaning” and sent it to his address. He has the freedom of course to not read it. I just decided to take the responsibility of purchasing it for him.
I believe that a “Statue of Responsibility” would serve, among other things, as an important reminder to humanity, particularly those of us in living in liberal democracies of what is required to safeguard true freedom and a democratic way of life. It would also be a celebration of the great man’s work and his contribution to humanity. It might encourage folk to explore his ideas, that are as needed today as they have ever been, as liberalism and particularly liberal democracy seems to be under threat in our ever more divisive times. I also believe that it would be an antidote to so much of today’s cynicism too. Remember that he is ideas were developed in the Nazi death camps and yet he still maintained a hopeful view of humanity. As he often quoted, a true realist must be an idealist, in order to believe in the capacity to raise humanity to its best possibility.
Now of course any statues are merely a symbol, they are not the history themselves. That said “A Statue of Responsibility” would hopefully lead folk to want to explore and learn more. Frankl is as needed now, in our times and space as he ever was. I know how much he has helped me, once again, in recent months. Not just to help me personally by the way, but to better live in this our shared world and then as a consequence meaning has emerged in my life and thus saved me from feelings of despair. The meaning though emerged from living meaningfully.
Maybe I’m just a dreamer, but I suspect I am not the only one.
Well it seems that I am not the only one, indeed there are many other folk who have also seen this need. I came across an article the other day that described a non-profit foundation whose purpose is to advance Frankl’s idea with the goal of completing the “Statue of Responsibility”. Apparently, the plan is to build a 300 foot monument complete with a large event venue and campus in a major city somewhere on the West Coast of the USA by 2023. A model of the proposed “Statue of Responsibility”, consisting of a pair of clasped hands oriented vertically, has been sculptured by Gary Lee Price. The model and associated renderings are being used to raise awareness of the initiative and help raise private funds for the project. I recommend you look into it, hey maybe we ought to explore something similar in this country. It could perhaps be a symbol of healing in these sadly divisive times. A statue dedicate to an idea, a way of being rather than a specific individual. I’m not sure we should make idols out of people in particular more ideals and principles. I’m not sure we should ever worship people, as we are all made of flesh, none of us are perfect.
Just to remember that Frankl was not against liberty, quite the opposite, he did not want to replace the Statue of Liberty. No, what he wanted to do instead was to compliment it with he wanted it to be complimented by a Statue of Responsibility. Who on earth would be against freedom or liberty? We all want freedom of course we do. That said we also want to feel that we belong and are accepted as we are. Sadly, for many folk throughout history, this has not always been the case.  It has also been the case the that some have abused their freedom in the exploitation of others. For any society micro or macro, including a free religious community, to be truly free and also functioning it cannot be based purely around liberty and liberty alone, where a person can act in anyway they like without any though or consideration for others. That doesn’t sound like freedom it sounds more like adolescence. As a friend of mine’s meme, posted as I was writing this sermon stated, “Insisting on your rights without acknowledging your responsibilities isn’t freedom, it’s adolescence.” This seems particularly pertinent in this our time as we are attempting to live our lives while under the threat of this virus. We are being asked to sacrifice many aspects of our freedom for the good of others, particularly the more vulnerable in society. Everyone one of us, to some degree, wants to resist but most of us accept this responsibility for the greater good. Some of course sadly do not, they will accept no infringement upon what they see as their individual freedom.
This is not unique by the way, it is how every society functions. To truly be free most reasonable folk accept that liberty requires responsibility, for to be free requires one to be responsible for their own action and truth. We are essentially free but only to the extent that our freedom does not impinge on the liberty of another.
Now the Unitarian tradition claims to be both free and inquiring. No one compels another to believe or disbelieve as they do, it is down to the conscience of the individual. Some say we can believe what we like, although this is not entirely true, we believe what our conscience compels us to believe. It is just that no tells an individual what we must believe in order to congregate together. Some criticise our tradition for this, they claim that there is nothing to us, no depth and meaning. This is wonderfully portrayed in an old episode of the Simpson’s, created by the Unitarian Matt Groening, when ice cream representing the different church traditions is being sold at a fair. When they get the Unitarian tub it is found to be empty, at which rev Lovejoy explains, that “this is because there is nothing in it.” Our tradition has been criticised because some say that there is nothing really in it. It is suggested that our freedom to inquire has become arbitrary, that we have fallen into Frankl’s trap. What about our responsibility to one another and the world?
Well I would answer this by saying that it is our respect for freedom and liberty for all that informs our love and respect for each individual and that informs our love for life itself and it is this inspires us to act in the world. Many of our old places of worship were dedicated to the Worship of God and the Service of Man. Responsibility, as much as liberty, has always been central to the Unitarian tradition. Our faith tradition has never been about merely serving ourselves, and this has always shown in love and respect for life, it has always shown in our deeds. As we so famously used to say “deeds not creeds”  At its core the Unitarian tradition has been more about how the individual faithfully lives their life than arguments about belief and disbelief. For faith and belief means nothing if it is not lived out in our ordinary everyday lives.
Or to put it another way "Faith without works is dead."

“Faith without works is dead” These words from the book of James chapter 2 vv 14-17 have for many years struck me powerfully. Of course, like most folk, I have never been able to live up fully to this ideal. I wonder how many times I have professed belief or even disbelief in something, but my actions have shown otherwise; while today I profess a belief in God and humanity sometimes my actions prove otherwise. I fall short every day. That said, as best as I can. I profess a belief in liberty and responsibility but I sometimes wonder if I always live up to this cherished ideal.


As I look at the current culture arguments going on in this country and all over the world as well as arguments about how we should be acting with regards to health and well being in the midst of this pandemic I see once again that these are arguments about liberty and responsibility. People do not agree, so what is the best course of action? It is not a simple answer, it is complex, there are many shades of grey and colours of the rainbow. A simple cut and dry answer is hard to find, but we must try and seek, speak our truth and learn to listen, to express our liberty and responsibility or society will fail to function and then no one will have freedom. Never forgetting the ultimate liberty, the freedom to live and no one’s individual liberty should surely have trumps over this. Then again there are many and varied threats to this. Even this is not a simple conversation.

Whatever it is that we claim to believe in, or not believe in for that matter, it can only be proved by our actions. So I for one will attempt to express my liberty to follow my conscience and to act responsibly not merely for my own well-being, but for the well-being of all. I am also continuing to give what I can in response to the need of others. What I can give is in spiritual sustenance, others serve in other ways. This is my work and my responsibility. This is where I find my meaning, my ultimate freedom, even in this very real suffering. This is my service to all.

Service is the often understood as the works spoken in the Book of James. But what exactly is service? Well it can mean many things. I have come to believe that worship itself is a form of service. I do afterall call what I lead on a Sunday morning a service of worship. When people come together as a worshipping community they are doing so in service; service to themselves, to one another, to God and to humanity. Even if they cannot physically be together as we cannot, they can do so in heart, mind, spirit and soul, as we continue to do so. This is a chosen act, one of liberty, but it is more than that it is also one of responsibility, for our own needs but also for the needs of others.

Worship is central to any spiritual community, but its purpose is to impact on the lives of those participating in it so that they can impact positively on the lives of those in the wider world. While we may not be able to change the whole world we can affect it in small and I believe positive ways. I strongly believe by being all that we can be in the world we do indeed change our world while not at the same time destroying it by imposing our wants upon it. By doing so we grow in spirit ourselves and we pave the way for others to do the same.

What do our actions say about us? Do we show love for God and humanity in the way we live our lives?

Sometimes I fall short. I take responsibility for this and thus have the liberty to attempt to aim ever higher. It is the acceptance of responsibility that enables one to know liberty.
I suspect that liberty is truly obtained, freedom found, not in the search for it but in and through service for a great good, a greater reality through love and service, through becoming responsible. As Frankl taught we do not find meaning or fulfilment in our lives by seeking it, just for the sake of liberty itself, in a self-centred ways, but rather by getting outside ourselves and relating ourselves, committing ourselves, to larger, transcending purposes. Oppositely, mere freedom from bonds, being on our own, at liberty to do as we please (by ourselves), far from being welcome and satisfying as individualist ideology generally assumes, is often alienating and frightening and thus provokes us to want to 'escape' the very freedom we thought was our heart's desire."
So I’m with Frankl I believe in freedom in liberty, in celebrating both, but I am also in favour of responsibility, not only for ourselves as individuals but for society as a whole, for this is faithful living, it is an expression of the love for life, for humanity, for God. Do we need to build monuments to this? Probably not. What we really need to do is to become living breathing monuments to liberty and responsibility.

Amen

Final Hymn
198 (Green) “The healing of the Nations” words Kent Kaan Tune Cwm Rhondda music John Hughes

For the healing of the nations,
God, we pray with one accord;
For a just and equal sharing
Of the things that earth affords.
To a life of life of love in action
Help us rise and pledge our word,
Help us rise and pledge our word.

Led us ever into freedom,
From despair your world release;
That, redeemed from war and hatred,
All may come and go in peace.
Show us how through care and goodness
Fear will die and hope increase,
Fear will die and hope increase.

All that kills abundant living,
Let it from the earth depart;
Pride of status, race or schooling,
Dogmas keeping us apart.
May our common quest for justice
Be our brief life’s hallowed art,
Be our brief life’s hallowed art.

Benediction

Go now in peace. 
Deeply regard each other. 
Truly listen to each other. 
Speak what each of you must speak. 
Be ready in any moment to disarm your own heart, 
and always live as if a realm of love had begun.

And may the blessings of God be with us in all that we feel and all that we think say and all that we do.

Amen

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